Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friends. Show all posts

Wedding bells are ringing!

Monday, September 2, 2013

Utterly excited about this coming weekend. I'll be attending my childhood friend's wedding dinner. Congrats to Queen Shelby and King Andrew for tying the knot! My prayer is that God's richest blessings will be upon the both of you and may He shower the both of you with everlasting love :) 


Ah, there's just something "jiwang" about witnessing a childhood friend's wedding. Am excited! 

On another note, extra ang pau next year. Nyek nyek nyek. 

Sorry, I just had to put a squatto picture of you!
CONGRATS!
You did find your "teman sejati" ;)

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Sister, friend, comrade.

Monday, February 6, 2012

As you grow older, you'd soon realized that there are only a handful of relationships that one can manage and truly appreciats. Those ones are gems to be treasured for life.

This past weekend I took time out to KL to bid farewell to a friend, a sister and a comrade as she departs our beloved homeland for the United States to interestingly, Kansas, Superman's birth place :P It's been 6 years now since I've known her. Since day one she's been a great source of friendship and encouragement, one of the very rare few who I can share about my struggles, weaknesses, life... well, just about anything really. Not having her around in the next 5 years will be odd. Gah, I hate saying goodbye.

Karaoke session with the family. Strutting out all the 90's boy-band ballads :P

Spending the weekend with her and the few Neritons who took time off was a great way to see her off to another chapter of her life. Ending the night with our age-old tradition of "family time" by hearing how everyone's doing, their struggles, expectations and hopes for 2012 was poignant yet appropriate not just for her, but for all of us. Wrapping all that up with prayer was just so apt as God reminded me how it was Him who in the first place had placed each of us together 6 years ago in the high mountain of Cameron.

Family time, age-old tradition.

To Jun, you know how much I cherish the friendship that we have and will continue to cherish.
Since I've already shared during family time that I will "invest more money" in friendship, you'll be top on my list ;) My prayer for you as you reunite with your husband in the States is that you will begin the next chapter of your life firstly with God and from there, I believe everything else will fall into place whether family, studies, friends or love.

Taboo'ing!

Just so you know, we're Team B. We whooped team A. Hahaha.

People always say we look alike and the truth is, it is true.
You look like my sister and I look like your brother.
You're beautiful and I'm handsome.
You're kind and I'm awesome.
You're lovable and I'm irresistible.
So you see, we are very much alike indeed :P

Much blessings to you my dear sister! Missing you already :/

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Missing You.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Just got home from a mini reunion with some childhood friends, friends I don't get to meet very often these days. Childhood friends are really quite special, aren't they? I don't have many childhood friends but the ones I have, I love them much. Even though we may all be living in separate parts of the world/Malaysia now yet whenever we come together we cherish every minute of it.

Driving back home just now got me thinking also about a particular friend whom I really miss, a dear friend. I miss you. 

I miss all of you much. 

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The Wedding of a Nerinut

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

I never really understood why people can get all emotional at weddings... Not until last weekend.

A good friend, a sister, a comrade and a mentor tied the knot last Saturday. The joy to see her walk down the aisle is indescribable. She's the first in our Neriton family to be married! Congrats, Jun!

Jun, if you're reading this... I don't usually say this but heck...

Banting boleh!!! Hahaha! :)

 
 The Nerinuts celebrating our beloved sister's wedding day!

Oh, that means we now have a brother-in-law! :P

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Of wedding and reunion...

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

I was down in KL last weekend for a friend's wedding, a close friend who was my course mate back in university. Since then, I already warned her to better invite me to her wedding or else... and she did of course.

I must say though, it felt a little weird watching a good friend walking down the aisle. It's like a reality check to remind me that I'm way past my very much cherished student life - I'm in fact an adult. A good reminder. Ah, but on the other hand, it was really nice to be able to witnessed her wedding too along with my other ex-university mates :)

Speaking of which, that was a highlight too. To be able to meet up with everyone for the first time since graduation is a real gem. We were known as the "Muhibah" group due to how multi-racial we were. It was really nice to be able to catch up with them and to know that everyone is doing well. Nowadays, I have to really pick which weddings to attend... But if anyone of us gets married the next round, I'll surely try to be there ;) Till' then, hidup USM! Keke.

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Bowling 101

Friday, June 18, 2010

The last time I had a game of bowling was probably about 8-9 years ago (yes, I’m old, so what?) . I remember I didn’t like it then and I still don’t like it now :P The idea of throwing a ball to hit several bottle-shape stuff seems more like an activity of releasing stress than playing a sport.

Anyway, I broke the 8-9 years drought on Wednesday when I joined my church’s Sports Connect Group (Sports CG) for a game of bowling. Whoa, not bad. At least I know I improved since 9 years ago but I still don't really like it. It was for pure fun and I'm glad we all had a good laugh at all the funny incidences that happened. How I dropped the bowling ball just before releasing it lah, how Nic the 'Goh-scorer' pose before the strike actually happened (which didn't strike btw :P), how for some people the ball always masuk longkang lah... It was great!

Getting ready to bowl!

Nic, the 'Goh-scorer' and all his poses!
:P

Although I don't like bowling perse, I do however love sports as a whole. I don't mind trying out different sports. The great thing about sports is that there's always "gems" which we can take home; values, lessons and characters that we can apply in other areas of our lives, not just in the area of sports.

Calvin, the 'hidden talent'... wait... More like he bluffed us...
Konon, don't know how to play! :P

Everyone had a try at bowling even though it was new to many.

After our bowling session, we headed for dinner and it was then we took time to share some of the lessons, values and characters that we have learn through the game of bowling. I'm very much encouraged by everyone's sharing. After all, Sports CG is a place for us to share with one another, learn from one another and ultimately, to learn from Him. Some said they've learn to just have fun with the people around them even though they were losing in the game, others said that they've learn to step out of their comfort zone and try bowling even though they didn't really like it, some also said that they've learn to cheer their team mates on even... All these are precious 'gems' that we need to take back and apply into other parts of our lives.

Sports CG!
Time for dinner and also sharing of lives! :)

As for me, I definitely collected a few gems through the bowling experience. This is my personal bowling 101 crash course :P

Lesson 1: It's more important to look at the direction on the lane than at the bowling pins
We had the privilege of having some very good bowlers amongst us the other day... President of Bowling club wei... Hehe. Just before we left for dinner, I asked this Pro-Bowler, "Eh, what's the most important thing about bowling ar?". She then enlightened me, saying that the dots on the bowling alley, which indicates where you stand and position yourself, and the direction on the lane is the most important thing to take note of in bowling, not the bowling pins. As I thought about it, God reminded me that bowling is like facing the different challenges in life.

A lot of times, when we come face to face with an obstacle or challenge in life, we tend to feel extremely small because we focus on the challenge ahead, the bowling pins, so much so that we've forgotten to look at the dots and the direction on the lane. I believe in every challenge that we are placed in, God ALWAYS gives us those dots and direction. In fact, if you think about it, He IS the bowling lane... He is the only way for us to overcome those challenges.

A good picture to illustrate this lesson is the story of David versus Goliath. When David came face to face with Goliath, it was as if he was facing 10 bowling pins. But you know what, his focus wasn't on the pin but instead, on the dots and the direction that God has showed him. He used the 'bowling ball' he had, just one smooth pebble, and hit Goliath's forehead! Strike! Don't fear the challenge, let the challenge fear you because God is on your side.

It's more important to look at the direction on the lane than at the pins
.

Lesson 2: We all have a bowling ball in our hands and to release it well, we need to move forward to the lane.
Just as God always gives us direction when we face a challenge, He too will always provide us with a weapon when we face a challenge. God will never leave us in an arena of challenge without any weapon. For David, he only needed one smooth pebble... Yes, just one smooth pebble that's all he needed.

But what happens to most of us is that, we don't use the bowling ball which God has given us. Why? Because we're afraid. We're afraid to (1.) face the challenge and (2.) to step out of our comfort zone. So what will happen is that, we will end up just standing where we are with the bowling ball in our hand and do nothing with it. For us to really utilize the bowling ball, we need to look at the direction on the lane and then "move forward", move out of our comfort zone, and then release the ball. Many times, fear cripples us from moving forward. Don't let that happen because God has already given us the weapon. In fact, He has given us the best weapon that is able to take down any sort of challenges... He has given us Himself! :)

We have a bowling ball in our hands and to release it well, we need to move forward to the lane.

Lesson 3: Our bowling skills will improve as we keep trying
When we played, there were a few of us who were 'professionals' while they were others who were the 'pencuci longkang'. I'm grouped in the latter :P We were all at different levels. Bowling requires one to understand the mechanics of its technical skills. What set some of us apart from the 'professionals' was the fact that they knew the technicalities of bowling more than we did.

Our personal strengths and weaknesses are similar to that of understanding the technicalities of how to bowl. As we keep bowling, our technical skills will develop as we go along just as we will develop ourselves as we face each obstacle. We're all made differently with different gifts but we are all heading toward one common goal and that is to keep moving a level higher in wherever we may be. Persevere and your character will develop (Romans 5: 3-4).

Our bowling skill will improve as we keep trying.

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In hindsight, I guess I wouldn't mind bowling again :P I picked up a few good lessons, well worth the embarrassment of 'cleaning the drain'. Hahaha.

So, the next time you face a challenge in life, go play a game of bowling ;)

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Dictators.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

I felt compelled to put this down after Traiblazers' match on Saturday.


Everybody hates losing. Worst still, losing it big time. Looking at the scoreline at the end of the game, I knew it was going to be a bitter pill for the team to swallow down. Their courage was literally put under fire. As the final whistle was blown, I looked at my players and I could tell that they were beaten down, heads down and spirit broken. I saw dejection. But as they walked towards the secretariat bench to honour their opponents, I saw something else. I saw not individuals but a team coming together in spite of a deafening defeat. And I must say, I'm proud of them all.

Great teams don't emerge as victors on their first chase for championships. They toil through hardships and face heart-breaking defeats only to meliorate together as one. They are persistent because they do not allow defeats to slow down their advancement.

Great teams are dictators.
They dictate their progress even in times of regress.

To Traiblazers, remember...

Keep smiling as you progress forward :)

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It's All Good.

Thursday, April 22, 2010


.......... Having said that, I still want my brand new guitar.

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Heart.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

There are some friends in life who would cross paths with us and then move on when the time is right. Then there are those rare few who would walk along with us throughout our journey in life...

Friends whom you know you'd grow old with.

You da' bomb! :)

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Angels

Thursday, April 15, 2010

It's funny how different people comes into your life at different intervals but somehow at exactly the right time just when you need them. Hmmm... A mystery only He can solve. Nonetheless, I'm thankful for such people.

Thank you :)

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Feeding from the States?

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

I had nothing better to do just now so I strolled down to my blog feed just to saja-saja see... Wah, I didn't know I got so many readers from the States. But I'm thinking to myself, I got so many friends from the States meh?

*Scratch head*


31% from the States... Hahaha... I got more Americans reading my blog than Malaysians... Not too sure if its a good or a bad thing...

Well, to all my American readers, Happy Chinese New Year!

(P.S. Go Chinatown and see some lion dance! :P)

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So, when you getting married ar?

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

I'm right at about where the question "So, when you getting married ar?" becomes a norm to me, especially at weddings and Chinese New Year gatherings. Last weekend, I was down in KL for a friend's wedding and that question came to me like endless ammunitions. The wedding was really nice. Loved how simple it was although both the bride and groom came from 'powerhouse' parentage... Haha.

Congrats to the newly weds! :)

I took the short time that I had to catch up with my friends back home. There's always a nice fuzzy feeling when I'm around people whom I grew up with since my Sunday school days. Although we're all practically adults now embarking on different paths, there's still always this 'unchanging' sense of childhood when we come together.


Wyzek & I.

I finally managed to catch up with the Captain. The 85s unanimously voted that he'd be the first to walk down the aisle... Hehe.


The lovely brothers reunited.

My absence back home in KL does make my time spent with this people a whole lot meaningful. Often, I wish I had longer time with them, but with all the time I have, I really do appreciate the little chats, the laughters, the jeers, the insults and of course, the love that we can share when we come together.


The 85's!
Love each of you to bits!

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I Appreciate You

Sunday, April 26, 2009

I decided I won't be writing a long essay, instead, I will just include a picture of the person I'd like to appreciate. In any case, I appreciate you people.


My Sunday School mates, the 85' batch.
People who I literally grew up with.



Mervin 'The PhenoMenon' Menon.
The hairy gentle giant who introduced me to floorball :)



Edward Cullen??
(PS weiii... PS weiii... I want to SB myself.. Chicken out again weiiii...
DV, DV!)

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Nowhere

Monday, April 13, 2009

Now, I know where I stand in your eyes...













... Nowhere in your sight.

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Find Us Faithful

Friday, April 10, 2009

Tis' the season for farewells and goodbyes.
This time last last year, I had to bid my fair share of goodbyes to friends.
And what d'ya know, after a year (come May marks a year), I'm still in Penang.

Closest to my heart was my group of PKA friends.
Recently, PKA had their annual Farewell Night to celebrate the 3 years of seniors who have walked down the path of university life while at the same time, faithfully serving Him.
It was a night to celebrate and to 'complete' their journey as university students.
As tradition would have it, PKA's 'Find Us Faithful' mime was passed down to the first years, who I'm sure have presented it flawlessly for the graduating seniors, acknowledging the completion of seniors who have ran this part of the race faithfully.

It's a powerful song and to PKA'ians who have graduated, it's not just a sentimental memory of our uni life and our good old days serving in PKA, deeper than that, it's a reminder to us of God's faithfulness, enabling us to walk through the 3-4 years in USM while sustaining us with His strength to continually serve Him.
A reminder also that as we run the race, we run for the people behind us.

Listening to this song still gives me goosebumps.



Find Us Faithful
We're pilgrims on the journey
Of the narrow road
And those who've gone before us line the way
Cheering on the faithful, encouraging the weary
Their lives a stirring testament to God's sustaining grace

Surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses
Let us run the race not only for the prize
But as those who've gone before us
Let us leave to those behind us
The heritage of faithfulness passed on through godly lives

Chorus:
Oh may all who come behind us find us faithful
May the fire of our devotion light their way
May the footprints that we leave
Lead them to believe
And the lives we live inspire them to obey
Oh may all who come behind us find us faithful

After all our hopes and dreams have come and gone
And our children sift though all we've left behind
May the clues that they discover and the memories they uncover
Become the light that leads them to the road we each must find

Repeat Chorus


To all graduating senior of Batch 2009,

As you bid all your goodbyes and farewells, take time to sing thanksgiving to Him!
The friends you've met, the results you've achieved, the activities you've organized, the legacy that you've left behind, comes from Him alone.
I know the idea of moving forward and leaving uni life may seem utterly bleak right now.
But rest assured, His hands have already chart out a new journey for each of you.
As for the journey behind you, let it be a "testament of God's sustaining grace".

We, the seniors of 2008, find you faithful :)



"Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses,
let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us,
and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus,
the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God."

Hebrews 12: 1-2

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I Appreciate You

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Aside from updating my personal blog as frequent as I possibly can, I try to upkeep my personal written journal as well. One of my journal’s list-of-things-to-do that’s been pending for a while now is actually to write string of letters, my “last letters” as I would call it.

I can’t remember how or when exactly I came up with this idea but it’s basically letters I want to personal handwrite to specific people (friends, family, etc) lest I have an early and untimely death. I know it sounds terribly morbid but hey, no harm being a little cautious right.

I haven’t actually gotten myself to do it. Writing a letter with the assumption that you’re dead for one reason or another isn’t exactly the easiest letter to compose, ya know. In line with this idea, I have decided to dedicate, to honour and to appreciate certain people that I believe have influenced me in more ways than one on this blog of mine.
In each of this entry - labelled/categorised as “I Appreciate You” – I will appreciate three persons (individuals) or groups (e.g. Family, course mates, etc). I will try to do this twice a month.
Which means...

3 x 2 = 6 people per month...
6 x 12 = 72 people per year!
(So you see, my math ain’t that bad after all..... ok, now can close windows for calculator...)

Why am I doing this exactly? For two reasons really;
Being in a culture where we don’t really practice or encourage to show much expression of love and appreciation to our loved ones, I realized that I have subconsciously become a product of such society, in which I find myself struggling when it comes to saying a simple ‘I appreciate you for being my friend’ or ‘I appreciate you for being there for me’.
In a way, we lack love, or should I say we lack the
expression of love.

Secondly, being a pretty sentimental person myself, I think I would deeply appreciate if someone close to me actually thought of leaving something with me (and no, I’m not talking about money here though I’m sure I can learn to appreciate that... Haha) when he or she moves on from this earthly realm, hence, I’m going to do likewise to those who I truly appreciate.

If your name doesn’t turn out here or if you didn’t receive any sort of letter when I die, I am by no means implying that I do not appreciate you. Please be assured that I do. Every face that I’ve seen and met, every friendship forged and every ‘hi’ and ‘byes’ I have encountered with, are truly precious gems to me. Know that I can’t exactly write to every single one of you...
If I do, wah, I think I’d probably commit suicide by the end of it...
Delving too deep into character already lar... I need to play dead remember? Haha.


For my first entry on “I Appreciate You”, it’s dedicated especially to my family;

Mom, dad and big sis/jie jie.

Ok so here goes...

My Family
(wah... macam Primary 1 punya essay)

Ok, this one must go all out to appreciate or else kena pancung kepala :P

Like all clichéd Oscar speeches, I’d have to say “I wouldn’t be here and be the man that I am today without my family... (Munyit, this part is for your entertainment only -->) tens to my mommy... tens to my daddy... tens to my sister...”... Hehe.

Family definitely played an integral part in my life. E.g., my love or should I say addiction to Milo is heavily contributed by my mum. Ever since I was a toddler, she would pour me a bottle of Milo to sleep and that bottle obviously turned into a cup. Yes, the echoing “Meeeeee, pour milo pweaseeee” can be heard until this very day when Christopher Koh is back at home. Ok, fine. That’s a very shallow example. But you get the point.

I’ve had a fair share of quarrels with my parents and sister. From shouting around the house to the deadliest silent cold treatment, yet all of these were necessary to carve the journey of growth. I guess leaving home for university has also ‘opened my eyes’ to the importance of family time.

My dad is an interesting person. People who know my dad always say to me,

“Wah, your dad very happening lar... He very loud... Not like you wan...” --- Sweat.


My baba punya Papa.

Yep, he IS loud and probably more outgoing than I am. I remember once I was acting on stage, I swear I could hear him laugh amidst 150 people! But deeper than that, I think I’m like him in many ways. For instance, my dad has a pretty high level of patience.
Why I say so?
Cause he has never rotan me before (realize I mention HE never rotan me and not THEY... Let's just say mommy had a different level of tolerance altogether... Hehe).
Seriously though, I believe I inherited my long suffering ability from him. And of course, I also inherited his handyman skills... Yea rightttt, who am I kidding. I can’t even fix a light bulb for Pete’s sake. Oh well, at least I inherited his passion for sports.

My mom and I go a long way back (yea, like since she brought me into this world?). Between me and her, we have this whole love-hate relationship going on. Haha. When I was younger, I was extremely sticky to my mom (I think all sons do, especially if they’re the youngest and the only son in the family :P). Whenever my mom scold me I would conjure this idea that she doesn’t love me anymore and would cry to her endlessly while long-windedly asking

“Meeee, you love me or not? Love or not?”

If any of my friends were to asks my mom how was I like when I was a kid, she would definitely bring this ‘dark’ chapter of my life up. Yes, yes... I’ll admit it, I’m a mommy’s boy (I am so going to get it from you guys... Why did I even bother revealing this part of my life).

I think beneath all the physical sacrifice that parents make for their children, like spending money on us, taking care of our health, making sure we’re safe and sound, putting us to sleep at night, ensuring that they still love us *ahem*, beyond all that, there’s something greater they’ve sacrificed for us - themselves.

They put us first.

Their passion, focus, zest, energy and lifestyle have somehow transformed to fit that to us instead of them. We become their world. I once heard a man said this...

“If a very close friend was standing and there was a speedy car coming towards them, I would jump and try to push them out of the way, or sort of shout out to them to get out of the way. If suppose my wife or my sister was standing in front of that speeding car,
I would 100% pull them out and not mind getting hurt in the process.

But if a car was speeding towards my children,

I’ll stand in front of the car and I’m sure I’ll stop it with my own bare hands.”

It's an interesting analogy and reflecting at my life, I realized that my parents have indeed stopped many cars for me with their own bare hands. Shading me away from danger while risking their own. They are to me, my very own Superman and SuperWOman :)

Being the youngest in the family and the only SON sure has got its perks =P

And for most part, I'm being pampered and spoilt by my eldest sister – Adelene...
Oh yea, it rocks being the youngest!

Growing up together in the same house definitely has its ups and downs. It wasn't easy.
I wasn't an easy brother to handle to begin with. Having her as my sister, sure did me some good. She has always assumed her responsibilities as the eldest sister for as long as I could remember. I can recall the days when we were still kids and how we used to sleep in the same room, 3 of us (me, my eldest sis and my late second eldest sister).
We used to stay up all night laughing for no particular reason.
It was those "sibling" moments that meant a whole lot to me.

As we grew older, inevitably, we had our fair share of arguments. And as siblings, I think we don't often say how much we appreciate each other. I'm not sure if it's an Asian thing or just the fear of plain awkwardness. I'll be the first to admit that I don't do it.
At least not as frequent as I think I should.
I'm never good at verbal expression of love.
I’m better of expressing via letters or blog.
Evidently so:P

So sis, I know I've been a pain for the past 24 years of your life and I'm sorry for all the inconvenience caused. Hehe. Despite being such a brat, you still tolerated my nuisance and rebelliousness.
I wouldn't EVER EVER trade you for another sister. You're the bestest.
You're always patient, caring, loving and selfless when it comes to pampering me...
And just so you know, I appreciate that a lot. Haha.

So, to my mommy, daddy and my sissy, I mean sister, thank you for being my God-given family for the past 24 years of my life. For the love, guidance, care, teachings and money (somehow I have a strange feeling I owe you all a lot) that you have blessed me with, know that I appreciate each one of you very much.

I appreciate you! :)


With love,
The long-winded spoilt brat kid who loves his mommy's Milo :)

P.S.: To my late sis, Evelyn - Yes, I still remember you. And for the years we've shared together as brother and sisters, I appreciate you too. I'll see you again soon. :)

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:)

Wednesday, April 8, 2009



Thank you very much! ;)
*hugs*

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I Need Back Up!

Monday, April 6, 2009

There was "no mercy" shown.

'Shoot to kill' was the order of the day.

It was brutal.

It was a war zone.

It was muddy.

The field was covered with blood... turns out, the blood was orange in colour.

That was the scene at Padang Brown on an early Saturday morning. My church Young Adult Connect Group took part in a paintball outing. We wanted to get a taste of what it's like to be Rambo for a day. Yea, time to put those action movies we've been watching to some good use.

I think for most of us, it was a dread waking up early on a Saturday morning. But I guess the thought of gunning down a friend was a good enough reason to do so. To add a little "action" to the activity, the night before it rained cats and dogs. Apa lagi.. The field was all out muddy. Yea, talk about getting down and dirty. Some of us even had the thought of executing those ridiculous Matrix/Max Payne/John Woo-type slip and slidin' action moves. Well, let me assure you it never works in real life. You'd probably slip without much luck on the sliding part.

As you can see, it was all soggy and muddy out there.

Anyway, we were divided into four groups respectively led by Jeffrey, Kenny, Chris and Natasja, a new friend but dangerously experienced. All in all, each team were given a fair chance of 4 rounds. Most of us were pretty new to this whole paintballing thing while others were deemed veterans. Some were afraid of getting shot due to the much talked about aftermath bruises and pain. While others were just thinking about how to get a head shot. Teams were strategising on how to cover the field as wide as possible and as efficient as they can. Just look at this team...

"Ok, lu orang lari sana.. Kita orang lari sini.. Jangan bagi muka tau..
Nampak apa-apa yang bergerak, tembak saje
!"

And of course, there were others who were just trying to look good even in the midst of a war...

"Yea, let's show em' the real terminators...
No 'Salvation' for them!"
(Pun intended).

By the end of the fourth round, we were all pretty much smeared with orange-coloured 'blood'. Amazingly though, some remained 'unblemished'.


Still so clean... Must be hiding behind those obstacle barriers...
Tsk tsk tsk..


Itu macam baru betui... Brutality wounded.

And there were some who enjoy getting shot at... Like James...

"WEEEeeeeee... I got shot in the face! Let's do it again!... Mmmm.. Taste pretty good too!"

At the end of the day, we all had a great deal of fun. For us as a Connect Group, it was an added joy to have so many new faces joining us for the activity. Indeed, they have been a blessing to us not just as team mates in the war zone but as new friends who have taken time out to join us on a dreadfully early Saturday morning. Thanks guys! It was a pleasure shooting you! I mean knowing you... =P

The day ended with Penny, our paintball coordinator (thank you for the very well planned outing!), summarizing the lesson behind the activity. As she puts it, we as human beings will always need some sort of support from family and friends, be it at home or work. Illustrated in our game of paintball, strategies didn't work because we get to absorbed in protecting ourselves so much so that we forget to "cover" our team mates, leaving ourselves as well as our team mates wide open in a deadly war zone. Likewise, more often than not in our daily lives, we get strayed away in doing our own personal agendas that we neglect the people around us, not realizing that we deprive not just them, but even ourselves of support.

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return in their work; If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls down and have no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not easily broken".

Ecclesiastes 4: 9-12 (NIV)

Penny debriefing all of us after a satisfying session of shooting each other down.

Poh Sim had her fair share of sharing... Hers was a little... er... unique...

"Ok, everybody.. My name is DIANA Saw... Now, say that really fast...
Di-ana-sawww!..."

It was a good reminder to all of us that we all need a certain kind of support. Ultimately, as Christians, we realize that our reliance of support in our Almighty God is of the utmost importance. In the little things, in the big things, whatever it may be, He will always be there to guide us, support us, correct us and love us. What separates us from God is that He never leaves us, humans do. In times when we give up on somebody and yes, even ourselves, God doesn't. He is always there ready to pick us up. The question is, are we willing to receive His helping hand?

Truly, God is by far the greatest support we can ever have!

He will cover you through and through for sure! :)

All the Rambos wannabes!
Paintball, 4th April 2009, Padang Brown.

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Rest in peace, my brother

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Although I knew you for a short period of time, it was enough to see the sincere being that you are.
Talented, generous, creative, caring and most of all, Godly-driven.
Even as you rest in a place far better off than this world, know that you have indeed made an impact in the lives around you.
Until we meet again in our heavenly home, we will miss you dearly.



Markus Ng
6 May 1985 - 4 February 2009

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It's a Small Small World!

Monday, January 12, 2009

Goodness gracious me.

I just found out that one of my best friend's school mate whom I've met before, is actually related to me!!!!!!
He's my cousin weiiiiii!!!

*GASP!*

I'm telling you, the world is getting freakishly small by the day.
You'll never know, the person next to you could be your long lost aunty.




And believe it or not, we found out we were related through FACEBOOK.
The power of FB.

Jangan main-main
tau...



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